Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Update

A lot has transpired here in the past couple of days. This could be a really long entry, so bear with me!
First of all - the appointment on Monday went really well for the most part. My mother-in-law Linda and I went in and they checked the babies measurements. They are looking great! Baby A is measuring at 3 lbs. 4 oz, and Baby B is measuring at 3 pounds. I was blown away with how big they've gotten! Dr. McCoy said they are measuring closer to 30 week babies than 28 week babies so that is great news! We were able to capture some 3D pictures, but I need to scan them into my computer so they will be coming shortly. They are truly amazing. I REALLY think that they look like Chris! I got choked up looking at them and seeing their perfect little noses, lips, eyes. They are just precious. I also got my dose one of the steroid Betamethasone to help jump start the surfactant in their lungs and get them developing faster. The final part of the day was to do another Fetal Fiber Nectin test to indicate if labor in the next two weeks is a possibility. I had to call back later in the day to get the results. My cervix was also checked and indicated that it had grown even weaker over the past week. As the Doctor said, now it's just time to get greedy and hope for one more week after one more week!
I left feeling really good about everything though and feeling confident that my boys are in a good place and getting to be of good size.
I did call back in the afternoon and was told that my Fetal Fiber Nectin test did come back positive. The results of the positive can be so easily skewed, so I don't invest a lot of energy and time into it, however it is just one more thing to be watchful for.
I went back Monday afternoon to my in-laws house and hung out there until Chris was able to come and get me after class that evening. It was so great to see him again! Him and I came home and went to bed around 11 Monday evening. I couldn't fall asleep (which has become a pretty common occurrence) and started noticing around 12 that I was having contractions that seemed to be pretty close together. I decided to start keeping track of them around 12:30. At first they were about 9 minutes apart. As I kept monitoring them across the hour or so I noticed that they were getting closer and going to 8 minutes, than 7, than 6. By 6 minutes, at 2 a.m. I woke up Chris and told him what I was experiencing. We both laid there in the dark for awhile and tried to decide what course of action we could take. As we laid there I noticed that they were coming 5 minutes apart, so up we hopped and headed off to the hospital! In the car my contractions were coming every 3 minutes, so we were glad to be on our way.
We arrived at L & D at 3:15 and they weighed me, had me use the restroom, and then once again hooked me up to the fetal and contraction monitors. The machine detected what I thought, and my contractions were three minutes apart. The boys themselves looked great, but the contractions - not so much. They saw that I was a bit dehydrated so they inserted an i.v. to provide me with fluids. They also gave me two pills of Nifedipine, which is a pill used to help stop contractions. I laid there for about 1 1/2 - 2 hours and we did notice that my contractions were going down. The on call Dr. then wanted to do a cervix check on me and see if there was possibly any dilation. He said it appeared it looked closed, but upon further investigation he noticed that I was in fact dilated 1-2 cm and was even able to feel the top of my little boy A's head! He welcomed me to the hospital and told me that I would be getting admitted for a little while. After he left to get me my hospital gown I broke down in tears. It was all so sudden! I didn't expect that I would be dilated, but as he said I may have been dilated for a long time now. Nobody has checked me since October 14th, so it's hard to say how long it's been that way.
So...into the hospital gown I went (this was about 6 a.m. now) and into my new room I was lead. They laid me in bed and hooked me up to monitors again and then gave me the second round of the Betamethasone.
The wonderful thing was that every Tuesday morning at 8 all 9 doctors in the practice meet together to discuss current patients in the hospital and their status as any of the 9 doctors may be working with us. It was nice to know that my regular doctor was included on what was going on with me and was able to be a part in the decision making process of my situation.
So all day yesterday I laid there in the hospital hooked up to iv's of fluid and also an antibiotic. I was put on a clear liquid diet just in case I would have to go into surgery.
The nurses and doctors were AMAZING the entire time and took such incredible care of us. They answered all of our questions and we never felt rushed or put off at all.
Throughout the day the boys hearts looked great on the monitor and my contractions seemed to be under control, so they moved me to a separate part of labor and delivery that is reserved for mothers who are not in labor, but are expecting. I was put on monitors throughout the evening but luckily was put back on a regular diet just in time for dinner. I was starving! :) Last night they took all the monitors off of me so that I was able to sleep better, and they even gave me a sleeping pill as I hadn't slept more than 1 hour in the previous 24 hours. I slept so well last night! This morning the on call Dr. came in and asked me if I wanted to go home! I was thrilled. He didn't feel that I was showing any signs at this point of going in to labor and that I would continue to take the Nifedipine at home for contractions for the next few days. After the third day I will be taking the pills as needed if I feel contractions coming on stronger.
I am now home, had lunch, showered, and I am back in bed. It is just extremely important that I get as much rest as possible and really take it easy. Because of this I am going to tuck myself away and not have any visitors or phone calls for awhile. I just don't want to take any chances with getting too worn out or pushing myself too much during this crucial time. I do welcome your emails or comments on this blog. We do know how loved we are and it helps so much to know! We love you all back and look forward to the day when we can be around you all again and show off our new little bundles! Chris and I both feel real peace about this situation. I apologize for not letting anyone besides our parents know what was going on in the past 48 hours. We didn't want to worry anyone until we knew more information. We do feel really good though now about where things stand and how the boys are doing. Your prayers and thoughts are continued to be welcomed as we head into the last however many weeks of this pregnancy. We are thankful for each and every day that I am being given to keep them safe inside, and we will see when their arrival date will be!
Much love to each of you. Pictures of the boys and maybe a belly shot or two will follow within a day or so.
-Beth-

24 comments:

April said...

Hey! Wow, what a busy time for you. You guys are in our prayers and I know those little guys will be fine. I can't wait to meet them. I hope you can rest and gain your strenght because once they arrive it won't be any less hectic. May God bless you and keep you.

Anonymous said...

God's Hand is upon you all..He is good and He is faithful. He knows the exact time and moment that He plans on bringing them into this world..and all will be well. Praise to Him
Love Mom

heather.edam said...

Lady, I know everyone says this, but... You guys are in my prayers. Keep resting! Remember, if there is anything you need (and I can do) just let me know! You're getting so close!

Anonymous said...

What a story! So glad everything's ok....we've been wondering and worrying. You know that if there is ANYTHING you all need, please let me know. I'll be thinking positive thoughts for you and the boys! Keep on resting and being such a great mom! :)

Irene

Carl8ta said...

you know we'll be praying for you guys tonite in small group.

:) Rest and 'soak' to your CD

Anonymous said...

Beth, it's an amazing story! I am SO glad that it happened Monday night when Chris was with you, after he was gone for so many nights previously! - How exciting that you are getting so close to seeing and holding your sons!! I'm glad you're home again! Rest up!! I love you!

Beth said...

Michael, you are so right. The timing of it is more than amazing. I had just finished spending 4 nights here by myself, and the night he comes home is when it all happens. I wouldn't just call it a coincidence!
THANK YOU ALL who have commented so far. It means so much to me!

Anonymous said...

Beth!! Oh I can only imagine what you and chris went through...very scary for you, but like mom said, God knows the exact hour and when it is all will be good...easier said than done huh sis...but we must have faith.
Stay strong Beth and Chris, you're alwayz in our prayers!

Love you lots
sissafren

Cheryl said...

Thanks for the update! Prayers to all of you! Can't wait to see the new pictures of your boys! I'm so glad God is in control! :)

Anonymous said...

Beth- I was worried, and now I feel better! 29 weeks! That is amazing! The boys weigh a good amount, and everything is looking up from here!
So glad everything is ok. Just remember, even if you have to go to the hospital to give birth prematurly- remember my girls, and the fact that they are in the 90th percentile!!sending you prayers and hugs!

Anonymous said...

did some checking and I see I was about 8 hours by car from you yesterday. Next time i get that close I will be with you guys. So happy all is good with the boys and you--keep resting and taking it a day at a time. Tell Chris i will get the deer he didn't get on sat!
Love you so very much little one!
DAd

Blackwell said...

Beth... What a little journey you are on... It's great that you have this blog to keep it all written down.. Your boys are going to love being able to see what you and their Daddy went through leading up to their arrival!!
Their weight is SO GOOD!! That's amazing! You are doing such a great job!! Keep it up girl! We're praying for you!!

Christin said...

PRAYING. There's Heavenly favor all over that womb of yours. xo

Dana said...

Thanks for updating us. Wish I could have been there with you through this all, but it sounds like you were in good hands in the hospital and in God's hands at all times...you all well taken care of! Please let me know if there is anything you need. Prayers are a given, but I'm willing to help out in any other way! Love ya! Darf :)
P.S. False alarms make for really good stories! You weren't following in my footsteps were you...if you know what I mean...wink wink! ;)

Anonymous said...

Precious Beth and Chris...such a blessing you are to your boys...protective and loving in all ways. Who would ever have dreamed that a little girl from Minnesota and a boy from Virginia working in Alaska in a fish cannery would be experiencing an event such as this. Truly touched by God at that time, throughout your marriage, and now during this time of anticipation.
Love to you all from our hearts,
Mom and Dad H.

Kelly said...

Oh wow! I was so nervous throughout your post and almost wanted to skip to the end! I was quite glad to see that you are back home, but considering those weights those little guys are going to do great. Good thing you had the shot as well!

Keep drinking that water and rest, rest, rest!!!

(I always hated night time. It was something about the darkness and knowing that the world around me was sleeping peacefully and I couldn't! I hope you are able to get some good nights of sleep.)

Anonymous said...

Beth and Chris... like everyone else on here, I am showering you and the kids with prayers. God blessed you both with these lil angels and will see them through until they just can't take it and wan't out of that swamp of a womb. : ) I can't wait to get out there and hold them in my arms and tell them how much I already love them. I love you both very much. Tell the boys Uncle David will be there soon... : )

Anonymous said...

Pretty exciting, Beth! We're starting to hold our breath. Think of Elizabeth and Mary in Luke 1. Those boys can hear and recognize your voices. Are you reading the Bible to them?

Love, Keith, Sheila & Karl

Anonymous said...

Wow! Are you blessed through these messages or what!!! Think of the prayers ascending for you all!! Oh Linda, isn't it amazing to think of this son of yours and this daughter of mine, plucked from different parts, brought together, and now...I stand amazed!
I love you little family!
Mom

Davene said...

Beth, thanks so much for sharing what is going on. I'm so glad labor was stopped...and also very glad that you got to go home! I'll continue to pray that God keeps His hand gently on those little boys of yours!

Beth said...

I am SO blown away by all the friends and family we have surrounding us in this. You all have no idea how much your words and encouragement mean. I have never been on a journey quite like this one! Thank you all so much.

Elizabeth said...

Prayers and blessings and favor on you four...we wait for more updates...thanks for sharing your story...

Kristen said...

What can I say that hasn't already been said? You are very prayed for though. My aunt found your blog through mine and they are praying for you too!

Anonymous said...

Wow, Beth and Chris, this was a real adventure. So glad you got sprung from the hospital...keeping you in my prayers.

Jack